If this is a joke, then in what way is accommodating diversity a laughing matter? If it's not, then how can John even think to display such a comment? Since when is someone's gender preference an acceptable point of open mockery? If this is a joke, it only highlights the neanderthal thinking still pervasisive in a fairly homogenous culture that excludes marginalized groups that have immense amounts to contribute. It's like the dominant culture to exclude those with less social power and thus continually reassert their own. I assure you that there are many clients you meet on a daily basis that are one degree away from a gender based crisis either for themselves in their youth or within their extended family. The suicide rate for people conflicted with gender issues is excessively high, given the issues they face such as those displayed on this thread. Considerations of how to make a living, how to be socially connected and to have a viable career choice that they enjoy are not really any of your concern are they? ..as you enjoy your privileged entitlement to assume power within the dominant group you happen to be born a part of. This really highlights an opportunity for you to learn just what it's like for marginalized groups who are unable to enjoy the fruits of mass society. Oh, I remember people of colour, women, and other ethnic groups to also be marginalized groups that are managing over time to make strides to achieve community in the group. Some are not and face the very same issues as 'Bev'.