Droopy - my top suggestion for stressed out consultants would be to stop worrying about work / bonus / life. Anyone that allows themselves to worry about stuff will lead a miserable existence as a consultant. There are always client deadlines to meet, the risk that you might be asked to work a weekend when you've got something fabulous planned, fears that you've not met the expectations of the Partner on the project, going to miss out on promotion / bonus, etc.Funny thing is, if you stop and write down all the things that have worried you in the last year and then cross out all the things that never actually materialised - well you'll probably find that you spent ages worrying about things that never came to pass.If you refuse to give yourself sleepless nights and high blood pressure worrying about this kind of stuff, I guarantee you'll immediately find everything a whole lot more enjoyable and less stressful.If you know the author Dale Carnegie (author of "How to win friends and influence people"), one of his titles addresses this topic and is called "How to Stop Worrying and Start Living". I read this early in my career and it was a life changer!Hope this helpsTony RestellTop-Consultant.com