That's interesting, I saw Edward de Bono speak last year and he was the most drole person you can imagine.He is interesting in that his brain is like a bottle of coke rammed full of mentos but unless you want to be known as 'the interesting guy' I'd steer well clear.My advice, and it's a little left field, is to look into books on body language but most importantly the art of flirting.You can flirt with anyone, man woman or beast. And before the ludite's throw scorn flirting is not about sexual attack, it's about building other people's ease in your company and making them feel good about themselves.It'll do wonders for your career and your love life!It did mine...