First of all, congrats on being alive. Roadsters are great.This is what roadsters should do imho:1. Be fun to drive - Smile baby!2. make you look classy and enjoying yourselfBMW Z4 and Boxster are reallt good cars, but I would suggest you look into the Smart Brabus Roadster Coupe. (To make it more confusing, it's actually a targa.)The Brabus version has only 101bhp but goes OK, good sound, brabus finishing bot exterior and interior and can be found second hand for - I guess - around 20K.Women think it is a Ferrari and you do not have the poser image associated with BMW and Porsche. I love the car.