Hi Wannabe,The truth is on your budget you can forget anything but a doorway and a dustbin close to Aldwych. Your Missus is going to have to commute and you are going to have to choose a more suburban spot to make your rent feel like it is worth paying. Once that has sunk in, the only way to really decide is to do some leg work. By the sound of it you don't have a great deal of experience of London. All of us that do love it or hate it for different reasons but these only come from experience. My advice would be to get a short term let somewhere in SE (maybe a studio in Dulwich or Tulse Hill) and then spend a few weekends exploring. Check out Wimbledon, Mitcham, Norbury, Croydon and see waht you think. Get in a few pubs, wander around and see what you think. Keep Canning Town and anywhere else north of the river off the radar though as it makes the commute so much easier for you if you are south. Finally, the stab proof vest is an optional accessory in most parts of London now, from Belgravia to Bethnal Green, so don't think you can avoid it by living in a 'nice' part of town! Good luck!