Sophie, from your posts, I can see you are having a rough time. How about doing something proactive to solve your problems rather than wasting time spreading your negativity on this forum?

Surely posting such a nasty tread is entirely negative. Noone wants to read sh*t like this.Now back to consulting topics.......

Learn to put forward an opinion properly and of course spell.

Good point, Taxman, although you should have put commas around "of course".

Altobello - Fair comment, I see your point. I do need to be more proactive - that's construtive advice, so 'thank you'. I'll try and be less negative on here in the future. I just feel like I'm locked in a bad situation at the moment and don't really know how to move forward.

Sophie,you have been offered a lot of advice, good and bad. PLenty of people have invested their time in trying to help you out. My suggestion is that you print off all the comments, digest them and do not come back to the forum until you have acted on some of the advice. You cannot keep going round in circles. At some point you have to make a decision. Even if that decision is to sit tight for a while.

Why does she need to shun the forum till she has decided? Seems a needless banishment to me.

Sophie can do what he likes. I just think it is a little self obsessive to keep asking the same questions over and over again. Is Sophie looking for sympathy or answers. All I am saying is that every possible answer has been offered, as far as I can make out.

I haven't seen anyone suggest that she eats her own head.

There you go Sophie. Try eating your own head.http://corporatewhore.blog.com

I for one would be very impressed; I've never seen anyone sucussfully manage to finish it. I've heard jawbone tastes rubbish though.

It's a bit like self crucifixtion really - no matter what you do it's nearly impossible to get the last nail in.

Surely you could nail the feet and one hand on, and then stick a nail in from the other side of the crucifix so that the point is sticking out of the front. Then a simple slaming-wrist-onto-pointy-nail action should secure you safely to the cross. Never done it myself, but I've heard that works ok.