[quote][quote]when i said "opportunities", i meant "compulsory events"when i said "socialising", i meant "networking" not "copulating"does that read better? :)[/quote]In which case do what I always do in similar circumstances.Arrive and greet everyone, remind them you are there because you have to be, you want some expedient networking and under no circumstances any copulating.Then leave with a flourish and a Swiss Tony sort of anecdote.Or...Basically don't get drunk. [/quote]unless there are lots of fitties, in which case get the ginukas in and find a wingman like Arby - then head into the "target rich environment". Bonus points for getting the whole start group to join you in signing "she's got that lovin' feeling".