No.Weeds grow in every garden.A 'proper' HH, let alone a successful one, simply won't have time to meet people for some vague chat. Like Recruiter I occasionally - and it is very infrequent - will meet someone for an exploratory chat, but never a new contact, I'll only do that with someone I already know who may be at a critical juncture and need the time.A properly mandates HH won't waste too much time in telling you who the client is, what the opportunity is etc: they need to close you off (i.e. get your buy in and commitment) early in the process, and if they do have that mandate they should be happy to discuss who it is with. Nothing vague there. If I am not working on a specific mandate to discuss for an individual I know I can work with, I'll discuss where and in what firms/practices I have in roads or warm contact and explain I can broker an introduction, or even suggest places to approach directly without my involement.Also a HH will be more interested to understand how you could be motivated to move, looking for points of push/pull in your current situation - much of the work is in getting you to buy in and keeping that going. If they have been transparent and honest from the first contact that should not be a problem. The last time I was approached (HHs do get headhunted too) this young kid starting grilling me - so I turned it round and told them they approached me, sell their client to ME. Take control of these conversations is the message here Steve: actually a good HH will want you to - what I aim to do is facilitate as an advocate, negotiator etc but I should be in the background from day one. If you can take the initiative to manage the process and let me get on with the back room stuff everyone winds up happy. Even me, and I'm a grumpy g1t most of the time.