I recently read an illuminating article. It was a brief account of the dedication of a nurse working in palliative care, who had made a point of asking all those in her care what had made them happiest and their biggest regrets. The results were later compiled into a book of 20 years of such reflections and the overwhelming response was family, and not spending enough time with them.If this company can't understand your priorities right now, this isn't a company you should be working at anyway.I hope your mum recovers, keep us updated.